This post is an exciting account of my emotions on my first trip to India. It’s also a hilarious tale of my almost illegal entrance in India and the nerve-wracking day I almost crossed the Nepal-Indian border without a passport stamp. Join me as I share my adventurous journey and provide some valuable insights along the way!
If we rely solely on media stories of violence, rape, terrorist attacks, domestic violence, and women’s suppression, India may not seem like a safe destination for travel. Especially for solo female travellers. But it’s important to recognize that stories like these occur worldwide, in every country. Even in your own homeland. When we see or hear news from abroad, it feels distant, unfamiliar, and inherently more dangerous. Having travelled extensively in India, I can confidently say that with proper awareness, it is indeed a safe country to explore. In this blog post, I will delve deeper into Indian culture. I provide tips for travelling safely, and highlight potential scams to be aware of.
First day in India
On my last day in Nepal, I couldn’t help but feel a mixture of excitement and nerves as I prepared for my journey to India. Questions and doubts swirled in my mind: Was it safe? Would I enjoy it? But with a leap of faith, I decided to go for it. After all, I had invested 90 euros for a Indian visa, which is quite a sum when you plan to explore Asia for a few months. I made a promise to myself: I would stay for one month, giving it a fair chance. And if it didn’t go well, I always had the freedom to leave whenever I wanted.
Experience India yourself
India is a land of diverse cultures and customs! Every traveller has their own unique story to share about this incredible country. I’ve listened to a myriad of contradicting narratives, both praising and criticizing India. It’s a place that tends to evoke strong emotions. You either fall in love with it or face some challenges along the way. I received numerous warnings and scary tales about India, even from fellow Indians I met in Nepal.
It’s not uncommon for both men and women to feel a bit apprehensive about travelling alone to this densely populated nation. With countless reminders to stay safe and be cautious echoing from family, friends, fellow travellers, and locals, I must confess that I too felt a bit nervous before going on my journey to India. But I was fully aware that India would offer a truly unique experience unlike any other country I have visited.
Crossing the border
The next day a sense of adventure washed over me. As I hopped into the taxi and embarked on my journey towards the Indian border, my heart raced and my palms grew moist with anticipation. It’s hard to recall a time when I felt such nervous excitement while visitng a new country.
My first adventure in India began in Sonauli, a small and hectic border town. As I crossed the border, I couldn’t help but notice how locals, both Indian and Nepalese, seamlessly moved between the two countries without any formalities. I vividly recall a man on a bike with a cage carrying three chickens, zooming past without a care in the world. Sonauli itself is a charming little town, with many shops, restaurants, and a bus stop I could not find.
A friendly local stepped in to help, and before I knew it, I was whisked away into a bus to Gorakphur. When entering the bus I was lucky the driver casually asked if I had obtained a stamp on my passport! Oops! It almost slipped my mind! I had been in India for a mere five minutes and was so overwhelmed by the experience that I almost forgot to get my passport stamped at the Indian immigration office. Imagine that, entering India ILLEGALLY…
I left the bus and asked directions to the immigration office. It turned out I had passed the office but had no clue it was there. Along the way, I encountered numerous curious souls asking me about my destination and mode of transportation. With a smile, I politely declined the offers from a few enthusiastic individuals who offered to take me to Gorakphur.
Three months in India
My one month in India past by so quickly I had not even noticed the promise I’ve made with myself to stay at least 4 weeks. After my almost illegal entrance in India I spend three months in India. I came back five times in the following three years, spending more than 12 months in India.
Monumental highlights to visit in India
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Ayurveda in India
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